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What does quran say about leaving My dad as we are facing alot of family problems ……

Submitted by Anonymous on Sat, 02/04/2022 - 06:54

I met My Dad after 20 years. He left me when I was very little and now I’m 21 years old. It’s been a while that I’m staying with him but to be honest I’m not feeling comfortable and we have so much difference , even though we had fights , like he was not behaving good with my mother and I told him that he shouldn’t fight with my mother and …

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Right and Obligations of Parents and Children

Submitted by Anonymous on Tue, 02/11/2021 - 07:34

I am having trouble maintaining relationship with my parents.I’m 25, single, only child, living in Dubai and have a decent job.My parents are around 58, living in Pakistan, recently retired and financially sound.Apart from other matters, we disagree on on two major decisions of my life.a. I want to marry a Muslim girl from India and they are apposing it. And only accepting it conditionally, i.e. we come to Pakistan. Since, she …

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Is parents permission necessary to settle abroad (getting a decent job)?

Submitted by Anonymous on Thu, 26/08/2021 - 13:21

Assalam un alaikumI am a 32 year old married male and only son of my parents. I recently did my PhD from USA and had to move back to Pakistan with family because of my parents insistence. I have tried to find a job in Pakistan but have failed to find one.Meanwhile being disappointed I also started applying abroad and I expect to secure a decent job very soon. I am afraid …

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Child suffered mentally through domestic abuse on mother by ex father

Submitted by Anonymous on Mon, 05/10/2020 - 14:14

Have separated from partner of 15years, due to domestic abuse towards myself and our children. Therefore he has been charged with this, he is not allowed to have any contact with myself and the children at all. The abuse also involved his family. However not long ago his parent was diagnosed with a terminal illness and is requesting to see the grandchildren, their father has said he will not be present however …

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Conceiving during Muharram Safar

Submitted by Anonymous on Thu, 06/08/2020 - 10:46

Are there any references against trying to conceive in the months of Muharram and Safar or is this permissible?

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My father has always been abusive

Submitted by Anonymous on Sun, 21/06/2020 - 22:12

I’m 26, the eldest of 4 and only girl.My father has always been abusive, verbally and physically. He has been abusive to everyone, his parents, his siblings, his wife, his kids, friends, neighbours, acquaintances etc.We were told someone had done taweez on him and us. We found the taweez at home too, so there is truth in this.My question is, how do I fix my father? I’m in such a desperate state …

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My 7 year old Kids misbehavior

Submitted by Anonymous on Wed, 29/04/2020 - 11:21

My kid is very naughty and he misbehave alot also uses abusive language he is 7 and disobedient we have used every method to make him understand love scolding and punishment nothing works of everything is going according to his will he is fine but if we want something against his will he misbehave he hits himself and he even says that he wants to die

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Can I pray home and not go masjid due to Corona virus.

Submitted by Anonymous on Tue, 03/03/2020 - 15:37

Asalam AlaikumThere are a couple cases of the coronavirus in my country(belgium) and spreading. I have heard from sheikhs if u are afraid u can pray at home instead of the mosque. I am not afraid of the virus but my mother is and she doesn’t want me to pray at the masjid anymore and go outside in general (only for college if lesson is obligatory). Should i be obediënt to my …

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Toxic relationship with parent

Submitted by Anonymous on Sun, 12/01/2020 - 21:05

Salam,Our maulanas are always talking about how to respect your parents and be nice to them and listen to them. But they won’t ever talk about us “the children” and how parents should treat us? There is not a single lecture on how to deal with a toxic parent/s. My mom does this thing where she will go to my brother and talk bad about me and my sister. She will come …

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Am I allowed to leave my parents?

Submitted by Anonymous on Mon, 23/12/2019 - 14:24

Asalamalaikum,I am married now and have children. I currently live with my parents; however, my wife would like us to separate. I do agree with her as it would be nice to have our own privacy and independence. But my parents although not elderly, have their ailments. My mother for example has chronic back pain so has an expectation of my wife to take over all duties such as cooking and cleaning …

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