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Should i take Divorce or khula?

Q:

Sir meri shadi ko 7 months ho lkn mery shohar na hi time, atteyntion, care, pyar dety h or na hi in 7 months hmari kabi apis m bat hui h wo ghr first to late aty h or aty hi mobile py time waste m jab b bat krti hn to agy sy khty h  hmara jor ni bnta tha baro ny apis m milny k ly hmari shadi kra k tention m dal dya h. or m ny uny bat krty b suna apni kisi dost sy khty k y shadi just formality puri hui h m balky shadi per jo kharacha hoa b zaya hoa mjy dosri shadi krni h.

Halan k m ny un ko kai bar kaha h k ap ko jo chahiy bta dy m apna behaviour apni adat chnage kr lon g jo ap ko ni psand lkn wo sirf her bar aik hi bat krty h hmara jor ni bnta tha.
M y pochna chahti hn k m ab y sab bardasht kr k thak chuki hn to kya m alehadgi k ly khula ya divorce ka kah skti hn q k aisi shadi sy to behtr h k m akely life guzar lon. Her wqt m stress m rehti hn k kya kro agr khula ka sochti hn is sari situation m to wo thk ho ga ya ni mtlab m apni tarf sy sab koshis kr chuki ho is shadi ko nibahny ki lkn sab mamlat wahi k wahi h.
Kindly hisab lga ka bta dy k mera alag hona thk ho ga ya ni.
Mery husband mery mamo k bety h or wo b.a parhy h mery education MBA h is ly wo bar bar khty  hmara jor ni bnta. Halan k m ny kbi apni study ka dikhawa ni kya q k m ny study to apny ly ki h dosoro k ly ni.
Kindly mjy mery msly ka bta dy ap ki shukr guzar ho g.
To agr is situation m khula leti hn to kuch galt to ni ho ga.
A:

Wa alaykum salam

Thank you for your question.

Aapka masla sunke bohot afsos huwa,Allah aapki mushkil ko asaan karey.

Aapko is mushkil ko bardasht karte huwe 7 months hogaye hain. Is arse mey aapne  kisi se help lene ki koshish ki?

Mera  khayal hai aapko apne buzurgon ki ya kisi aalim ya koi influential insaan ki madad leni chahiye.

Un logon ko apna masla batayn aur unse kahein aapke shauhar se baat karein.

InshaAllah divorce aur khula ki nobat nahi aaygi.

Aur sabse important dua karein….duaaon se bare masle hal hojate hain.

Sukaina Taqavi