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Should I help my husband to leave drugs or leave him?

Q:

Salam sir,
I am a married girl, 23 years old My husband takes drugs which I didn’t know before getting married. I have tried for 2 years to help him leave it but things were getting worse because there was no willing participation from his side,  now I am in a very bad situation after trying very hard for 2 years now we have a year old daughter too.. things got worse and I had to leave  his house and come to my aunt’s house, now I am living here and waiting for him to do his treatment but I don’t see him taking any steps.
I have been soo confused all this time because I don’t want to leave him, but still i can’t live with him when he is taking drugs and we don’t even have money to eat.
Last night I saw a dream that I fell into a deep canal which went into a dirty gutter I thought  I will get out of it but the canal was so deep that I could not even see the sky and started to panic.
Then a big snake from the dirty water came out and hit me so hard but somehow I managed to kill him.
And after that, I saw myself in the hands of the rescue team and they rescued me from that gutter.
Now I am confused should I take the  decision to leave my husband or should I go back and help him again to leave drugs
I am in a very hard situation please help me

A:

Wa Alaikum al-salam Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuh

Thanks for your question

The decision is yours, but our suggestion is not to get divorced and help your husband quit drugs and rebuild your family. Of course, there is a limit to everything and your help too will expire at a certain point. It’s best that he gets some counselling that will convince him to leave the drugs and concentrate on the blessings he is blessed with.

you cannot fight this on your own. you need extra help and so does he.

regards,
AAA team under the guidance of Sheikh Mahdi Mosayyebi