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Q:

I am divorced and have a son from my ex-husband.When I was in his nikkah ..He made a video of us while having sex.He gave me some drug and I fell unconsious so I had no memory of that day..it only came to my knowledge after divorce that he uploaded that video to a PORN site.He threathens me to take my son away..I can’t tell my parents as my mother is a heart patient and no one will marry me If I take him to court for his wrong doing.
I have no idea what to do ..I am totally helpless.
He is married and soon will have a baby.He is happily living destroying my life. I want to ask will he get any punishment for his act and What Islam has to say about this kind of sin that is done for harming other’s honor and life?

A:

Assalamu alaykum

Sorry to hear about your experience.

I would really suggest you look into fixing this problem via counselling.
Someone your ex husband would listen to as well. Because, ideally he shouldn’t be having any say in your life, except for the child.

Also, have you confirmed whether of what he says he has done (regarding
the porn site) is true?!
He could be bluffing?!
If he isn’t, and he really has uploaded the clip, it’s not removable?!
In this regard if a local Aalim is approached, he maybe able to convince your ex husband to reverse his act??

Also, it’s important to understand that, he  is already  standing against Allah (swt) by committing haram. In that case, rest assured, that Allah has your affairs and his, in HIS (Aj)  hands.

InshAllah it all finishes of without any pain and grudge

In my prayers
Naajiya.S.Jaffery