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Sir me ap see apny susral k hawaly see bat krna chahti Hun k wese bazahir to sb achy hen sab bht khayal rkhty hen lekin mere Dil me ajnabiyat si rehti Hy mujhy un k saath apnaiyat mehsoos ni hoti. Or wo log Sai galat sab baten mujhy keh dety hen lekin me ni keh pati kuch b k in ko bura lage ga wo Kiya sochen gy.

A:

Wa alaykum salam

Jab larkiyan shaadi ke bad dusre ghar jaati hain to bohot natural hai ke unko wahan adjust hone me time lagta hai.
Usually dono taraf ke log bure nahi hote lekin unka rehn sehn mukhtalif hota hai.
Aapki is situation me mera mashwara ye hai ke jaldi na karein.Koshish karein,apne sabr aur ache kirdaar se unka dil jitein .
Lekin hamesha yaad rakhein ke har kaam Allah ki marzi se karein aur unki nafarmani na karein.
Agar ham Allah ki baat sunenge to wo hamari baaton me asar aur dusron ke dilon me hamare liye muhabbat daalega.