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My brother disrespects my father and when I defend my father he yells at me . What should I do?



I have an issue it’s regarding my elder brother. He is disrespectful to my father and says bad things about him. He uses bad words for him , I cant stand listening to his bad behavior and bad language I stand up for my father and counter my brother. In result my brother disrespects me and says I will beat you. And I had to stand for my father because I cant see anyone disgracing my father.

What should I do?

Or am I wrong to defend my father?

Because my father is a good man and a very good Muslim and he gets sad and hurt my brothers actions.

Please help me out


Wa Alaikum al-salam

thanks for your question

Being Disrespectful toward parent is a great sin and your brother is making a big mistake. Try to make him understand that making his father sad will make his life hard in this world and the day of judgment as well, there are lots of Ahadith and Quranic verses for importance of treating parent respectfully and punishment for those who disrespect they parent like:

Try to defend your father without disrespecting your brother, maybe he stops threatening you.


Sheikh Mahdi Mosayyebi