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Is it true that the fate of marrying someone can not be changed by making dua ?

Q:

Is it true that the fate of marrying someone can not be changed by making dua ?

A:

Salamun Alaykum

Thank you for your query.

Everything that happens to man is written in his destiny, but it does not conflict with man’s free will and the role of Duas.  Because what is written in the destiny is according to the conditions and causes, including free will and supplication. For example, it is destined that if someone prays on such and such day, his illness will be cured.

These things and thoughts are the wrong concept that one blames everything and every mistaken on fate and destiny. Allah(swt) has sent us with the free will that means we can make decisions and make right or wrong decisions. We cannot throw every evil thing on predestination.

Some of the things are predestined such as when to come in this world which we do not have in our hands but once we are born we are being given the free will to decide. So, on the other hand the choice of who we marry depends on our own free will even if Allah(swt) has pre-eternal knowledge of our choices.

To learn more in depth regarding the fate and destiny please read:

There is a discussion called “Predestination and free-will”. I will recommend you to read about it in detail on: https://www.al-islam.org/justice-god-naser-makarem-shirazi/issue-predestination-and-free-will

Literal Meanings of `Qadha’ and `Qadar’: https://www.al-islam.org/man-and-his-destiny-murtadha-mutahhari/part-4-literal-meanings-qadha-and-qadar

May Allah(swt) grant you success

Wassalam,

Syed Haider