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Is it okay for a daughter to not talk to her father……


What a daughter should do if her father has a bad eye on her and I had tried several times to molest her physically but somehow she was successful to save herself from that monster it okay not to talk to him and to give him abuses.

I have another question and that is what should we do if we had broken an oath taken on the Holy Quran.


As-salamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullah

thanks for your question

Harassing father is not allowed, if face to face communication might have problems for her, she can communicate with him over phone or text etc. because Maintaining ties with one’s relations (silatur rahim) is obligatory upon Muslims, and severing those ties (qat‘ur rahim) is one of the major sins. According to Ayatollah Sistani “It is haram to cut the ties with one’s relation even if that person had severed his ties [with you]. It is haram to do so, even if he or she is negligent of salat, a drunkard, and takes some religious injunctions lightly (for example by not observing the hijab, etc) to the extent that there is no use in advising, counseling or warning him or her. This prohibition is only lifted when maintaining the ties encourages that relation to continue in his or her immoral ways.”


About Breaking oath according to website of Ayatollah Sistani the oath is valid with different conditions one of them is “The oath must be sworn by one of those names of the Almighty Allah which are exclusively used for Him, (e.g. ‘Allah’). …” so braking a swear to Quran doesn’t make make kaffarah.


Sheikh Mahdi Mosayyebi