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Is divorce allowed if husband does not pray or practise Islam?

Q:

Hi, I have been married for 7 years….before marriage my husband told me he prays/practices Islam hence I was happy to marry him. After marriage he showed me his different side and does not pray nor practices Islam. There were also problems with my mother/sister in law…they didn’t like me and I was called by my mother-in-law a Christian/kafir when her own son don’t pray. Ahamdullilah, I fear Allah and do pray and try my best to practise Islam and become a better Muslim before marriage and after. Amongst all the marriage problems my main concern was if my husband dose not please Allah….he won’t please me and there will be no blessings in our marriage…I tried my best to advise and encourage him to pray and practice Islam more but he is just ignorant. It came to the point where there is no happiness, communication, intimacy etc in marriage. I have been patient for 7 years..I was going to end my marriage before and was separated for a year but I gave him another chance as he said he will change and in – laws treated me better. We moved out of in-laws thinking things will be better…but it’s worse now  as he don’t pray at all and I don’t find it comfortable to stay with him anymore. Can I divorce him and move on?..
Please advise.

A:

Waalaykum al-Salam sister.
Thank you for your question

A man who does not fulfil his obligations towards Allah (az) is a sinner but then he hasn’t denounced the religion. Therefore, he is still a Muslim. His battle of not doing what is needed out of him as a Muslim man is with Allah alone. Hence, he will have to sort it with Allah (az), the rest of us around him can only give him gentle reminders and encouragement(Amr bil Ma’roof & Nahi anil Munkar).
However, these reminders and encouragement have to be polite and amiable. otherwise, a person may turn out to be rebellious. And even if he wants to change, he may not do so just so that he gets to the person who is impolite to him.

It’s best, if you speak to someone your husband will listen to like an Aalim, or an elderly.
Also, your marriage is in place. Just because your husband doesn’t pray does not annul your Nikah with him.

Make lots of duas sister. He needs extra prayers apart from encouragement.
best wishes,
N.S.Jaffery