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In every legal task of life I reach very close to success but suddenly success turn to failure

Q:

I have to discuss my problem with you,I hope so you might guide me the best solution.Since the time I attain mature to distinguish between right and wrong I am facing failure in every legal task.I am a student of MBBS 3rd year now in a private medical college.I have lots of problem because each time I am tested I get pass in theory exam but they fail me in viva, not only in this but also in every legal task of life I reach very close to success but suddenly success turn to failure.I am fedup of my life failure don’t know what to do.I cry in close dark room what is going with my life.I also pray namaz but i don’t know why Allah S.W.T is too angry with me that I am continous facing failure since childhood.

A:

As-salamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullah

thanks for your question

There are different aspects for this situation

In religious aspect we must know that having failure in life doesn’t mean definite punishment and doesn’t show that Allah swt is angry, sometimes problems and suffering happen to us as a test just like the story of prophet Job (Ayyob). Sometimes problems happen to us because of our own mistakes and sins, that is why we must repent and do Istighfaar a lot. Sometimes problems happen to us because of others bad eye and jealousy in our life.

Psychologically there are reasons for such result and assumption; maybe you have negative mentality, maybe you don’t know yourself well enough hence you have high expectations, maybe you have problems in planning or goal setting, etc. in such cases consulting to a therapist may become useful.

regards

Sheikh Mahdi Mosayyebi