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I want to marry

Q:

Assalmualikum..I am 18 years studying in class 12th.I want to marry because it is very hard for me to control my sexual desires.I used to masterbate to satisfy my hunger but when I came to that this is SIN ,I repented and make a firm taubah and started praying 5 times a day and also started reading and memorizing The Holy Quran. As I am the younger son of my parents, I am unable to talk with my parents on this issue(marriage). So, I will be thankful to you if you suggest me something so that I may control my sexual desire or my parents may think themselves on this serious issue. Wassalam

A:

 

Assalamu Alaykum

 

your efforts are praise worthy. Allah keep you steadfast and strong. in such times Quran is the best Companion.

 

for your personal issue please visit this link:

 

Masturbation in Islam

 

however for further assistance speak to a person (an Adult), say a Scholar, and ask him to play as a middle man between you and your parents. This can really help solve your problem.

kind regards

Sayyid Shabbar