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I separated from my husband for 4 months now does this mean divorce.

Q:

I’ve been separated my husband for 4 months now and I haven’t heard from him since then, does that mean that I got divorced? He not treating me right and I wanted him to divorce me and he is refusing to divorce me. I didn’t deserve this my kids did not divorce deserve this .  All I need is to just be happy and let my kids be happy because he’s not worth it and He’s not the kind of man that I’m I want to be with him right now ,so I just wanted to know how long do I have to wait for him to divorce me because I’ve been here for 4 months almost 5. It’s like I’m single and I have to raise 5 kids by myself without him supporting me right now he lives in a  different state I live in a different state. I’m suffering with my kids by myself I work and pay rent .

A:
Waalaykum Salam.
Sorry to hear about your current situation. Allah keep you strong and healthy InshAllah.
According to Ayatullah Sistani’s office, you aren’t divorced. But you can certainly ask for one. If it’s hard to get in touch with himself, you can approach the Aalim in your state and ask him to help you with your divorce.
Dues  your way
Naajiya.S.Jaffery