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I need your advice in my divorce case.

Q:

Salaamun Alaikum.

I got married and found out the girl is not a virgin and she lied that she lost her virginity due to masturbation while I found out her video having a bed relationship with another person before the marriage.

I gave her a chance that she would not do such things again. But two months later she was not only communicating with that person but with other men also.

I found out that she was using narcotics and had sexually transmitted diseases.

When I asked her to tell me about her behaviour she started to become violent and abusive.

I kept proofs of my allegations against her took her back to her parents and filed for divorce.

After this, I found out her past which was not known to me was bad as she was having many relations including swapping partners and had also caused the divorce of one person because of this.

Before the divorce has occurred (Islamic talaq and country divorce) she married another person even before Iddah.

Please I need your advice on the way forward.

A:

Al-Salam Alaykum

This is a definite case for Talaq. When your wife is not even trying to correct her behaviour and it is in such a bad condition, you must save yourself as this behaviour would put you in danger. even postponing divorce is not good and finishing this toxic relationship is better for you.

As for Mahr, you can tell her, if she does not ask for Mehr, you will not start a case for her Zina. Then you can leave her without paying Mehr in Talaq Khola’.

Best regards!
Sayyid Madani