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I meet two beautiful women whom I’m interested in for marriage one is newly convert and the other is born Muslim

Q:

The First one became a Muslim before Ramadan and other is Muslim her entire life she also comes from good family and is beautiful has schooling and loves the deen whereas the first one is still learning and has lost her family but has beauty working on a career but loves deen also.
Kindly guide whome should I consider for Nikha.

A:

Waalykum salam
Thank you for your Question

A person should marry the most God wary and pious amongst the choices one may have.

You may want to find qualities that promise you a good Muslim wife who will be a great role model for your children especially your daughters.
Someone who will draw you closer to your duties towards the Almight.

I will suggest you read the following on spouse selection:

https://www.al-islam.org/youth-and-spouse-selection-ali-akbar-mazaheri/chapter-five-criteria-spouse-selection

Best wishes,
N.S.Jaffery