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I dont want to leave my parents nor want to divorse my wife??

Q:

When ever my wife fights with me, she in anger asks for khula.(divorse). When she comes to her senses she apologizes but in the mean time, she utters such horrible words that it hurts me (It includes my parents). What should i do? I know its my fault? How can i make things better? In the light of hadith, quran and islam law?? Please tell me. I dont want to leave my parents nor want to divorse her??

A:

Wa alaykum salam

Sorry to hear about your problems,may Allah help you to solve them.

I think you need to speak to your wife very logically and firmly.
You need to assure her that you don’t want to leave her at the same time she also has to change her behavior.
If you can’t do this yourself,ask a reliable friend,relative or an aalim ,psychologist to help you.
For further information about husband’s duties,refer to this link:

https://www.al-islam.org/principles-marriage-family-ethics-ayatullah-ibrahim-amini/part-2-duties-men#family-economy

Regards
Sukaina Taqawi.