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husband work environment is not very safe and he ends up sinning.

Q:

Aslamuwalaikum,
My name is Raheema. I am pregnant now (alhamduillah) .I got married in August 2019 my husband is doing Research (Ph.D )in Germany. He work with lot of women he is the only male in his team, rest of the team members are women. So i feel uncomfortable the way there are behaving with each other. Their dressing code (women’s in his team) is not good. that i haven seen in the photos in his mobile their dress were inappropriate (showing front cleavage and chest). My husband told me he get urges by looking at them. He went to bars, pubs, restaurant, gym, trekking, and inviting some to home with them. That too before our wedding so i was not aware of that. i came to know all these stuffs after our wedding. he use to watch porn as well. I caught him red handed many times. He told that he will quit watching porn inshaa Allah. But even though he is doing it sometimes.

I AM FEELING SO UNCOMFORTABLE, UNSECURED, AND STRESSFUL THAT HE IS WORKING IN SUCH A KIND OF ENVIRONMENT WHERE HE IS THE ONLY MALE IN HIS TEAM REST WERE WOMEN. WHAT CAN I DO ?

A:

Assalamu Alaykum

Thank you for your Question. And congratulations for the baby on the way. InshaAllah it arrives well and brings a lot of joy and barakah.

it is important for your husband to know that his job in such an environment is not permissible as it drags along Haram actions.
he should certainly look for another work pace which will be both, safe you as a couple and as parents for your baby to come InshaAllah.

reagrds,
N.S.Jaffery