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How do I resolve my wife

Q:

Dear Aalim,
Hope you are in best of your health and Emaan.

The question I want to ask is about my wife. We have been married for 12 years and have three kids. Recently my wife has started to fight with me and is being suspicious about me. She says she feels someone has done magic on her, so she has very bad thoughts about me, without any specific reason. She feels stressed all the time and has negative thoughts, about me.
Kindly guide us to help to resolve her condition.

With prayers,

A:

 

Salamun Alaykum

Thank you for your query.

Does she have any medical history or health issues? What is the origin of this condition? If you know the origin of this condition then that origin and issue must be treated. Does she sit with someone or have a close friend to discuss these matters?  There is a lot of inappropriate advertising in these areas, especially on media and the internet.

Try to approach her with love and compassion so that her perspective may change. To address these issues, there is a need for psychological exploration, and you may seek help from counsellors in this case, if not solved after trying the below-mentioned things. Perhaps her mind is occupied due to obsessive thoughts or Waswas that she feels someone has done magic on her.

Make her feel secure, and she shouldn’t attribute the fights and other hurdles to magic.

One can protect oneself from Sihr and its bad effects.

You can suggest the following things for her to do, and you may also follow them:

  1. Keeping a small Quran with oneself
  2. Reciting the Quran every day, especially Ayatul Kursi, Surah Falaq & Surah Naas.
  3. Reciting specific Duas to ward off the effects of magic.
  4. Wearing Hirze Jawad.
  5. Calling the Adhan loudly in the house every day (at Adhan time) so the Adhan’s voice surrounds the house.

 

May Allah(swt) grant you success and I pray you have a happy life.

Wassalam,

Syed Haider