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fantasy of spanking allowed in islam for married people


Salam We are muslim husband and wife. My husband is really good with me loving and friendly. He have a strange fantasy that he wants me to punish him in bedroom by spanking his bottom and pulling his hair. Is it allowed in islam? I have no problem with it but want to know is it allowed in islam? And one last thing now he apso want to try me to humiliate him in bed room by making himwear female underwear. I feel that if i fulfill his desire he will not look for fullfilling his desire from somewhere else (haram means). Can we do it? Thanks a lot


Wa alaykum salam

Yes it is allowed as long as you dont cross the limits of sheria and it shouldn’t cause harm to you.
Sukaina Taqavi.