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Failed relationship


I have a relation of 2years. The boy promised me he will marry me. Everything was so good. We never had any big fight. After 27th month all on a sudden he said he can’t drag it anymore and he doesn’t love me anymore. But everything was good two days before breakup. It was a huge shock for me. I tried to contact with him but nothing happened as he blocked me from everywhere. I am now in depression I want him back in my life. But I don’t know how to overcome all this things.


Waalykum salam

Thank you for your Question.

Your case isn’t very clear to me as to how this relation really was!? Was it though family or self setup thing!?

If it was through family, I’m sure they have other ways to approach one another and resolve your issues or Atleast understand his side of the story.

But if it was a self setup relation then my dear Sister this relation was Haram in the first place. Allah does not recognize this kind of relation and there is no blessings to it.
I’d ask you to sincerely pray to Allah for yourself. In that prayer, do mention that you have made that mistake of having a relation with a na Mahram, and that you regret it. But if the same fellow is meant to be in your life then Allah should make it easy for you and he should come back, and if not, then HE should bless you with a wonderful husband who will know your true worth and cherish you for the rest of your life InshaAllah

I hope all goes well,
Why fret when you have such a wonderful Lord who is so powerful and high… yet so close!

Kind regards,
Naajiya Jaffery