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criteria for choosing a spouse


There are two guys that are potentials for marriage. One is not the best Muslim but trying and the other is a good Muslim. The first i feel closer to but the second I see myself having a better lifestyle with even if my heart is drawn to the first. I just wish I knew who Allah has deemed right for me because I can’t decide on my own. What should I do?


Assalamu Alaykum

thank you for your Question.

kindly refer to the links below for a good read in the area:

Youth & Spouse Selection


Spouse Selection

good luck