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CONFUSED ABOUT MY RELATIONSHIP WITH MY HUSBAND

Q:

ASSALAMUALAIKUM,

I AM MARRIED SINCE 6 MONTHS, IT WAS ARRANGE AND WE AGREED TO THE MARRIAGE. EVERYTHING WAS GOOD. BUT AFTER A MONTH OF MARRIAGE HE STARTED DOUBTING ME ON BASIS OF NOTHING. HE KNOWS MY PHONE PASSWORD HAS PASSWORD FOR EVERYTHING. I THOUGHT IT WILL DECREASE BY THE TIME BUT IT IS BEEN INCREASING.. AND APART FROM THAT HE CREATES ISSUE OUT OF NOTHING. BLAMING ME WHICH I HAVE NOT DONE. I KEPT QUIET FOR THAT ALSO.. BUT THIS TIME HE MADE THE ISSUE AND WAS NOT TALKING TO ME SINCE 17DAYS. OUT OF FRUSTRATION I TOLD I WILL DO SOMETHING WITH MYSELF. HE FORWARDED THAT MESSAGE TO HIS FAMILY AND MY FAMILY.. NOW I AM THE BAD ONE. I KNOW IT WAS WRONG BUT I WAS SUFFOCATED WITH HIS BLAMES.. AFTER THAT ALSO I TRIED TO CLEAR THE MESS. I SAID SORRY TO HIM. BUT NOW HE CREATED NEW PROBLEM.. I DONT KNOW WHAT IS HAPPENING. I AM COMPLETE MESS.. I CANNOT FOCUS ON ANYTHING RIGHT NOW

A:

Waalaykum Salam

Thank you for your Question

i’m so sorry to hear about your situation with your husband.

kindly refer to the link below for a like answer:

Counsel: Want to get separated from my husband

One of the most crucial thing in Married life is to have good communication with one another. It is the only way that will clear off confusions and doubts. If you feel your Husband is doubting excessively, then you may want to seek some help from a counselor and master ways to help him out. should he agree, then counseling for both of you would be ideal.

InshaAllah you problem gets solved,
regards
N.S.Jaffery