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I am a married woman and I have two daughters, main depression ki patient hon or mery husband busy person hain meri messenger pr aik larky say chat hoti hay jo mujh say 18 sal chota hay and he knows my age or status. Mery husband ko bhi is bat ka pta hay.bohat ziada nai hoti sary din main aik ghanta hoti hay Lakin bat krny say mujhy thora relief milta hay aap say yeah pochna tha k is mamly main aap ki kia ray hay main nay knhi ph pr bat nai ki or na hi irada hay na kbhi pic send ki.plzzz and dain

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Wa alaykum salam

Question: Is it permissible to chat with girls on the internet?

Answer: If it is feared that they might be drawn towards sin, it is not permissible. Normally chatting ends up in a sin for both sides. 
 
3Question: Can I be in a friendly relationship with a girl in my class.

Answer: All kinds of relations with a non-mahram including joking, expressing mutual love, talking with the intention of deriving pleasure, looking at the body of a girl (except her face and hands up to the wrists) and at her hair or looking at her face with pleasure are haram (forbidden). In fact, if it is feared that they might fall into a sin, it is forbidden for them to have any kinds of relationship with each other.
 
Khwahar girami, in jawabat ke mutabiq(jo upar zikr huwa hai)aapke liye us larke se baat karna munasib nahi.mumkin hai aapki niyyat saaf ho aur aap logon ko guftagu bohot personal naho lekin insan ke liye zaruri hai ihtiyaat karey,shaytan se ghafil na ho.tajrbe se ye baat saabit hui hai ke shaytaan hamesha insaan ke piche laga rehta hai aur behkane ki puri koshish karta hai.
Dusri baat ye ke aap us larke ki niyyat se waaqif nahi, shayad wo zaahiran bohot acha ho lekin uski niyyat aapse poshida hai.
 
Sukaina Taqavi.