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Can we perform a secret nikha without my family and in laws consent?


I want to ask if I can perform nikkah secretly without informing my parents and in laws , Is it allowed in Islam? secondly My parents and My in laws are ready for our marriage but they want time at least 2 years so we are thinking to perform Nikkah secretly because we don’t want to get in any sin or haram activity and after this nikkah is it okay to person nikkah again with the same person in front of all the family ? Kindly let me know the answer in the light of Quran and Hadith. jazakallah


Waalaykum Salam

A virgin girl cannot marry without her father’s consent. The Nikah will be invalid. The permission of her father or paternal grandfather is mandatory-Wajib.
Nikah has conditions that must have been fulfilled for the Holy act to be Valid.

According to Risalah Of Ayatullah Sistani.

Chapter twenty-seven » Conditions of a marriage contract – Islamic Laws – The Official Website of the Office of His Eminence Al-Sayyid Ali Al-Husseini Al-Sistani
Ruling 2389. A marriage contract must fulfil the following conditions [in order for it to be valid]: 1. based on obligatory precaution, the formula must be said in Arabic. If the man or the woman are unable to say the formula in Arabic, they can say it in a language other than Arabic, and it is not necessary that they appoint an agent; however, they must use words that convey the meaning of …

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