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Betrayal in relationship


A girl proposed me and insisted me to be in relationship with her. She said she will die without me and she can’t breathe without me. However i took me time to accept her proposal and to trust her. I accepted her and i always remain honest and loyal with her. Now we were about to get married suddenly she said she doesn’t love me anymore and said yes i was doing time pass. This all ruined my life it has affected me alot in each and every way. I lost my studies and job because of depression some serious health issues specially weight loss and still I can’t come out of this trauma. Help me with reference of Quran and Hadees and tell me will Allah PUNISH her one day for this for all my losses? Because i want Allah to give her same lesson which she taught me. Please answer my question


Waalykum salam brother 

Thank you for your Question.
There is nothing in the world (no act) that is going to be left unaccounted!
Allah promises that in the Quran (sura al-Zilzaal Ayah 7&8):
فَمَنْ يَعْمَلْ مِثْقَالَ ذَرَّةٍ خَيْرًا يَرَهُ ﴿۷
((Then shall anyone who has done an atom’s weight of good, see it!))
وَمَنْ يَعْمَلْ مِثْقَالَ ذَرَّةٍ شَرًّا يَرَهُ ﴿۸
((And anyone who has done an atom’s weight of evil, shall see it!))
Rest assured that every one will pay his/ her doing in this dunya and the next!
On a side note, I’ll like to let you know that you have been freed from a haram and undesired relation in the eyes of Allah.
Instead of being so down I’d suggest you gather yourself and look at life with a new look. A look that Allah will want you to have!
You have been freed from the chains of shaytaan and now the ground is open for you to take good and neat steps. Steps that will talk you to new horizons of learning and also true love in the form of your lawfully wedded wife.
((After every difficulty there is ease)) (Surah al-Inshirah 5&6)
You’re so loyal and honest. Only a very loving person in the eyes of Allah deserves it.
May Allah restore your health and you’re able to do your best again

Kind regards,

Naajiya Jaffery