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Does a bad thought about Father in law, affect my current relationship with my fiance.


I respect my future father in law just like my own father .

Just like waswasah in namaz or any other bad thought …once while thinking about my fiance sexually…i just came across a bad thought about my FIL without even seeing or touching him ..which went away in few secs as ignored it considering it a waswsah or act of shaitan …does it effect the relation with my fiance.Or everything is fine


Salaamun alaykum

Thank you for your question

One of the ways that shaytan uses to take man away from Allah (swt) is through evil temptations. So the first thing to do is seek refuge to Allah (swt) from shaytan and to ask Him for help and to seek His forgiveness for He is All-Forgiving for those who turn towards Him sincerely and constantly remember Him,
یَا أَیُّهَا الَّذِینَ آمَنُوا اذْکُرُوا اللَّهَ ذِکْرًا کَثِیرًا
O you who have faith! Remember Allah with frequent remembrance, (sura ahzaab/41)
We should always try and strengthen our faith and have taqwa; the more stronger our faith, and the more submission we have towards Allah (swt), the lesser the effect of shaytans temptations on us InshaAllah.

Just to help you through the thought process, it’s good to know that your Father in law is your Mahram for life (once you and your husband have read Your Nikah). So he is like your father and according to Islamic laws, one cannot marry her Father in law even if she divorced her husband. So to clear off any worry in your mind, Allah tells you he is your father and holds a very lofty and holy position in your life.

May Allah (swt) always send His blessing and mercy on us and help us stay steadfast on His path. Aameen

AAA team under the guidance of Zahra Davdani.