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Am I still his wife ?

Q:

I am a of 27 year old girl I was in a relationship with a man of 49 years. I had a nikkah with him 2 years ago in a mosque without my parents knowing but after my nikkah we had all the relation of husband and wife with each other. But my husband used to say ‘ i divorce u’ many times. Even 3 divorces at a time but before the iddah period he revoked me to build a relation of husband and wife again. He has done this 4 to 5 times . I want to ask am I still his wife? or is it haram to be with him? Is it permissible for me to go to his bed?

A:

Waalykum salam 

 
Thank you for your Question. 
 
If you were still a virgin when you did the Nikah, then the Nikah is invalid because it is Wajib for a girl to have the permission of her father or Grand father 
 
Also, for a divorce to be correct, it has to have the conditions. Kindly refer to the link below to see them: 
 
https://fiqh.world-federation.org/question/divorce-21/
 
Kind regards,
Naajiya Jaffery