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My question Is am I sinful after being truthful to my Husband ?


Salam… I have a question that I clearly told my husband that i dont want to live with him he could divorce me or else he could marry another woman. Main reason is I dont know why I dont want him to touch me I refuse him I know its a big sin I am ashamed but I dont know why I dont like him the way I should be but he is not giving me divorce and also not marrying He just want to have sex day and night . So my question is am I sinful after being truthful to him and also what Quran says what should I do?


Waalykum salam

Thank you for your Question.

It’s strange the way you describe your feeling towards your husband, more so because you don’t have a solid reason.

Although this is quiet likely if you’re going through some stress, worry and or medical imbalance in your body.

You might want to consider a trip to a doctor and run some tests to rule out lack of nutrients and vitamins (especially vitamin D3 which is every essential for a person to feel happy and full of life)

Also, maybe there is something missing in your relation and that’s bothering you!? Take some time alone and see what you can put your finger on. This will help you understand yourself and try and save your marriage and eradicate the problem” 


According to the Islamic law, a woman must comply to her husbands sexual needs. It is obligatory. In this case you must work even harder to be able to Keep up with your obligations.

Quran says: هُنَّ لِباسٌ لَکُمْ وَ أَنْتُمْ لِباسٌ لَهُنَّ

You are his covering and He is yours! (Not word to word translation) Hence let the integrity be preserved and together try and achiever greater goals in life InshaAllah.

Should you have further concerns, you may want to speak to your local Aalim.



Kind regards

Naajiya Jaffery