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Am I still his wife ?


I am a of 27 year old girl I was in a relationship with a man of 49 years. I had a nikkah with him 2 years ago in a mosque without my parents knowing but after my nikkah we had all the relation of husband and wife with each other. But my husband used to say ‘ i divorce u’ many times. Even 3 divorces at a time but before the iddah period he revoked me to build a relation of husband and wife again. He has done this 4 to 5 times . I want to ask am I still his wife? or is it haram to be with him? Is it permissible for me to go to his bed?


Waalykum salam 

Thank you for your Question.
If you were still a virgin when you did the Nikah, then the Nikah is invalid because it is Wajib for a girl to have the permission of her father or Grand father
Also, for a divorce to be correct, it has to have the conditions. Kindly refer to the link below to see them:
Kind regards,
Naajiya Jaffery