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Q:

There is a girl that I really love but she dont love me back. I met her 4 years ago and I have been praying to Allah for that girl since the past 2 years but my dua doesnot work. However whenever I try to forget that girl I see her somewhere so It gets hard to forget her. I wanted to know is this a sign from Allah that my dua will be accepted? Because this has happened Alot of times.

A:

Waalykum salam 

 
Thank you for your Question. 
 
Having a relation with a na-Mahram is haram. Hence it’s not possible that Allah would keep you showing this person. Rather, it is the influence of the ‘nafs’ and the whispering of the satan that turn you that way. 
 
If you make a proper and firm decision, I’m sure the next time you see her, you won’t have any feelings towards her. 
At times, young heart falls for another very easily. one should have an insight and understand the difference between love and infatuation. 
 
Good luck,
Naajiya Jaffery